for first-gen professionals, entrepreneurs, and disruptors
Authenticity Coaching
You’ve done everything right, but something’s still off.
You checked every box, adapted to every room, and on paper, you've made it. But inside? Something still feels off. Maybe you've journaled, gone to therapy, or turned to mentors for advice. It helped for a while, and you got a few steps further. But lately, you can't shake the question: "Is this it? Why can’t I figure it out?"
You built the life you were supposed to but now…
You say "I'm fine" and secretly wonder if that's true
You hit big milestones but struggle to feel excited or satisfied
Someone asks "who are you?" and your job title is the only thing you think of
You can't remember the last time your calendar reflected what you actually wanted to do rather than a never-ending task list
Winning on paper means very little if you're losing yourself in the process. That's why the milestones no longer feel enough—coaching teaches you how to realign your choices so life can finally feel like yours again.
You stop overthinking and start making decisions that feel worthwhile
You navigate conflict without abandoning yourself to keep the peace
You feel proud of your life, not just productive in it
You show up as yourself, instead of code-switching to fit the room
You weave joy and creativity back into your days, even the busy ones
What most people discover in my coaching isn't just a new goal—it's a whole new relationship with themselves. Beyond the promotion, the career pivot, or the extra time off is what you’re actually looking for: true ownership over your choices, complete confidence in your decisions, and the freedom to evolve without permission.
We aren't here to change who you are. We’re here to restore your clarity and trust so your life finally feels like yours again.
Ready to take the first step? Let’s talk about where you are and where you want to go.
Imagine what it’s like to trust your direction again.
MEET YOUR LIFE & CAREER COACHBetty Chan
I used to believe that if I worked hard enough, adapted enough, and got it right enough, I’d finally feel fulfilled. I didn’t. I just got better at pretending I was.
What I know now: when you’re doing everything "right" and something still feels off, it’s time to listen. You don't need a total overhaul, but you are ready to be intentional about what’s next.
For many of us—especially those who learned to succeed by overworking, masking, or putting everyone else first—it’s easier to name what we don’t want than what we do. Over time, this starts to feel like our life is a constant reaction to everyone else’s expectations.
Authenticity is how you build a life you won’t regret—and how you succeed without burning yourself out.
What most people call “being all over the place,” I see your inner compass trying to reset your direction. I’m here to help you reconnect with what your gut and heart have been trying to tell you all along—so you can trust yourself in any room you enter.
A Way Back to Yourself
M Y A P P R O A C H
Here's how we get there.
Release
Let go of hidden expectations that you’ve been carrying.
Shed old strategies that eat up your energy and block your progress.
Identify where “I should” is secretly driving your decisions.
Reveal
Rediscover who you are beyond your roles, résumé, or expectations.
Turn difficult emotions into clarity on what you believe and stand for.
Define your next chapter on your terms.
Reclaim
Ask for what you need without shrinking.
Express how you really feel without worrying about reactions.
Handle conflict without spiraling or abandoning yourself.
T H E R E S U L T S
A Life That’s Actually Yours
My clients don't just reach their goals. They come out the other side knowing who they are, what they want, and how to keep coming back to themselves, no matter what challenges are in the way.
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Be known for who you are, not just what you do for others
Know what you stand for, not just what you’ve accomplished
Show up in new chapters—a promotion, a new relationship, a business—with less pressure to perform
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Stop measuring your worth by what you produce or who approves of you
Make decisions without spiraling about what everyone else thinks
Enjoy your success, not just survive it
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Move through your emotions without being overwhelmed by them
Break the patterns that make you shut down, overexplain, or people-please under pressure
Return to calm reliably, not just once in a while
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Make rest a part of your success strategy
Prevent burnout by finding sustainable approaches to your productivity
Reconnect with joy and creativity, even on your busiest weeks
Make confident money moves, from renegotiating your rate to walking away from a deal that isn't serving you
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Launch your businesses and new offers rooted in purpose, not to prove something
Step into senior leadership by owning your story, gaps and all
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Say what you need without over-explaining or guilt
Navigate conflict without abandoning yourself to keep the peace
I never felt more motivated and confident.
— Erika Bellido-Jin (she/her), VP of Operations
It's been a huge journey to start a new job after 8+ years. Having Betty as my coach not only helped me navigate the transition confidently, our sessions untangle the kind of work I love doing and how I showed up as a professional. By naming what makes me happy, I found a role that celebrates my expertise and respects my time.
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Knowing my purpose became a cornerstone for my actions.
— Chantelle Bacigalupo (she/her), Writer, Journalist & Doula
Before coaching, I’d only done therapy but I was still wondering how to actually move forward. Betty helped me put clear language to what I wanted in my career and romantic life, which made everything feel clearer and more exciting again. She helped me cut through the clutter faster and with far less anxiety than I would have on my own.
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I can enjoy my success, not just survive it.
— Johnny Nguyen (he/him), Entrepreneur + Startup Growth Consultant
For years I built other people’s companies from the shadows, pushing myself until my body tapped out. Even when I was winning, it never felt like enough. Betty changed that. She didn’t give me surface tactics; she went straight to the beliefs and survival patterns that kept me overworking and under-enjoying my own life.
Betty’s precision as a personal and business coach is second to none.
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1:1 Authenticity Coaching
W E L C O M E T O
A lifetime shift in how you live, lead, and love without hiding who you are.
In coaching, you’ll receive:
Private 1:1 sessions for 3-6 months
Frameworks and tools tailored to your goals and pace
Voice and text support between sessions
Custom progress tracker to see your personal growth
50% discount on Authenticity Journals
Culturally rooted and trauma informed coaching from someone who can help you connect to every part of you, not just the parts you let the world sees.
This isn’t a cookie-cutter program with someone else’s goals attached to it—it’s custom-built entirely around you. Ready to see what’s possible when you let your inner compass guide the way? Let’s talk about your next chapter.
Is this a fit for you?
You know what you're supposed to want, and you're less sure what you actually want
You're the first in your family to do what you do, or to do it your way
You've hit milestone after milestone and still catch yourself asking "is this it?"
You keep a strong front at work, but inside, you're stalling on the decisions that matter most
You're tired of choosing based on what everyone else needs from you
You're the person everyone comes to for advice, and you have no one to ask the same questions to
I get to build this my way.
— Tanvi Mittal (she/her), Business Owner & Life Coach
My dream list was long, and the fear was real. I thought that if I just worked harder and celebrated enough wins, I’d figure it out. But I kept hitting a wall in my new business.
Coaching with Betty felt like entering a judgment-free zone where I could unravel, explore, and try again. I gave myself space to name what was hard about sustaining a business, and stopped believing there was one ‘right’ way to do it. This experience reminded me that courage, rest, and self-trust can all coexist in entrepreneurship.
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FAQ
All questions are welcomed on my discovery calls.
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In that case, welcome! You don’t need to arrive with perfectly defined goals or a five-year plan. Most of my clients begin by knowing what they don’t want in their days, and that’s enough to start.
Part of the coaching process is creating clarity around what you want, what’s been keeping you stuck, and what meaningful change could look like for you.
A discovery call is a good place to begin. We’ll talk through where you are, what feels off, and whether my coaching feels like the right fit for your goals.
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My clients often say therapy helped them understand why things feel off, but not how to move forward differently. In our work, we bridge that gap. We take the self-awareness you’ve already gained and turn it into tangible choices, boundaries, and language you can actually use in everyday situations. Check out this blog post where I explain the difference in depth.
Clients who’ve done group coaching programs or masterminds say my coaching feels different because of the personalized pacing. You’re not following a one-size-fits-all course or constantly deciding what information applies to you (or doesn’t). In authenticity coaching, you’re not getting a stack of worksheets. Instead our sessions respond to what’s showing up in your life, so you can make progress with less resistance.
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There’s no right or wrong time. In my coaching, we practice gentle productivity and accountability. That means our time together won’t pull you away from other important matters. Instead, it’s designed to help you fit together the parts of your life that are in tension, so you’re juggling less. We do this by helping you gain clarity on where to focus (or not) and what helps you create progress without burning you out.
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That’s a valid question. Coaching is an investment, and I believe it should feel intentional, not impulsive.
The people who benefit most from this work usually reach a point where staying in the same patterns becomes more costly than making a change. While I can’t guarantee specific outcomes, I can offer a space for honest reflection, meaningful accountability, and support that’s tailored to your goals and growth.
A discovery call can help you determine whether this feels aligned, valuable, and worth investing in for where you are right now. You can also check out what my past clients have shared about their experience with authenticity coaching.
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The timeline looks different for everyone. Some clients notice shifts in self-awareness, confidence, or decision-making within the first few sessions, while deeper patterns and ways of relating to themselves unfold more gradually over time.
My work isn’t about quick fixes or surface-level results. It’s about helping you understand yourself more honestly, trust yourself more deeply, and move through your life with greater alignment and intention. When that internal relationship begins to shift, it naturally influences other areas too — relationships, work, boundaries, creativity, money, and the choices you make day to day.
Rather than forcing a specific outcome on a specific timeline, the process is about creating a foundation that supports lasting growth across multiple areas of your life. At the same time, I take the investment of your time, energy, and commitment seriously, and we’ll work intentionally within our time together to create the deepest level of transformation possible for where you are in the process.
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Coaching is $6,300 total, paid monthly on autopay. You choose the pace that fits your life:
3 months: $2,100/month
6 months: $1,050/month
If you’d rather pay once, you can pay upfront and save $300 ($6,000).
We’ll talk through which pace and payment option feels right on your discovery call.