You Didn’t Build the Wrong Life.
Ready to close the gap between the life you’ve built and the life you actually want?
Authenticity coaching for first-gen leaders, entrepreneurs, and disruptors who don’t want to look back on their life with regret.
Hi, I’m Betty Chan
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Hi, I’m Betty Chan –
I'm an Authenticity Life Coach. Which means I help people stop performing in their lives and start actually living them.
I used to believe that if I worked hard enough, adapted well enough, got it right enough, I would finally enjoy my own life. I didn’t. I just got better at pretending I did.
What I know now: when life feels off, when you're doing everything "right" and something still feels missing, you're not broken. You don't need a big overhaul. You need to notice what's been there all along.
For a lot of us, especially those who learned to succeed by overworking, masking, or putting everyone else first, that feeling of "off" is information. It's pointing to where you've fallen out of alignment with who you actually are.
Authenticity isn't a luxury here — it's the only way back to yourself.
That's where I come in. To help you interpret what your body and mind are already trying to tell you through the tiredness, the quiet doubts, and the nagging questions that never seem to go away.
When you understand what's actually true for you, you stop white-knuckling and start trusting yourself through the twists and turns in your relationships, your work, and your life.
A Life That’s Actually Yours
My clients don't just reach their goals. They come out the other side knowing who they are, what they want, and how to keep coming back to that— no matter what noise is in the way.
They make decisions that feel genuinely theirs
They speak up from a grounded place, not from fear or guilt
They build relationships that don’t ask them to earn their place
They stop measuring their worth by output, approval, or how busy they are
They feel proud of who they are becoming, not just what they've achieved on paper
They don't just get clear on where they're going. They feel at home in their own life.
L E T ’ S W O R K T O G E T H E R
1-on-1 Coaching
Create a lifetime shift in how you live, lead, and love without hiding you are
Speaking & Workshops
Skills to drop the armor and lead from who you actually are
Journal Stickers
Skip the setup with peel-and-stick templates and focus on what matters
W H A T C L I E N T S S A Y
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"I can finally enjoy my success, not just survive it. For years, I built other people's companies from the shadows, pushing myself until I tapped out. Betty helped me change the patterns that keep me overworking and under-enjoying my life. If you want clarity that sticks, Betty's the one.
- Johnny Nguyen (he/him), Head of Growth
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"Betty has such a grounding, yet expansive presence. She's empathetic, deeply thoughtful, and simultaneously no-nonsense (which is especially useful if you get stuck in overthinking loops). She has the knowledge, tools, and experience to hold space in exactly the way you need."
– Ashlee Sang (she/her), Brand Messaging Strategist
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"I had so many important epiphanies during my time with Betty! She helped me land on my feet after a layoff by identifying the major blockers to my happiness. I'm grateful I can finally relieve my stress and make real progress."
– Brittany Robles (she/her), Policy and Partnerships
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"I started coaching to work through some tangled moments in my new business. Betty helped me see that there wasn't one ‘right’ way to do it. If you are looking for a thoughtful coach that will make you feel seen and held - reach out to Betty!"
– Tanvi Mittal (she/her), Facilitator and Coach
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"In our 6 months together, Betty got me to see the big picture. I went from 'how can I do more' to really understanding what I wanted to accomplish and how I could get rid of the distractions that got in the way. I highly recommend her!"
– Paul Lee (he/him), Project Management Office
S P E A K I N G + W O R K S H O P S
Betty Brings Honesty & Heart to Every Stage
She has spoken and led workshops for Olly, Unilever, The Asian American Foundation, and LEAP on authentic leadership, emotionally intelligent communication, and turning gentleness into an everyday superpower.
You deserve this.
Take the first step and find out who you are becoming.