Hi, I’m Betty

AUTHENTICITY LIFE COACH, SPEAKER & FACILITATOR

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I guide first-gen leaders, exhausted entrepreneurs, and multi-hat teams to create success without losing themselves.

I support my clients in building self-trust, setting values-aligned goals, and moving through transitions with clarity and calm.

As a recovering perfectionist and child of immigrants, I draw from lived experience to guide others through the often invisible work of letting go, showing up, and redefining success on our own terms. You’ll find that I bring honesty, heart, and steadiness to every session and stage.

Outside of coaching, you’ll find me in the boxing ring, giving old furniture a second life, or patiently translating between generations at home.

Let's get to know each other

Finding wisdom in an uncomfortable journey.

For years, I did everything “right.”

I was a high-achieving daughter of Chinese-Burmese immigrants, checking all the boxes: good grades, steady job, leadership roles, respect from others.

By my early 30s, I had climbed the ladder bit I still felt lost. I wasn’t burned out because I couldn’t handle the pressure; I was burned out from pretending I didn’t have needs. I didn’t know who I was outside of being useful.

And like so many expert sufferers, I kept going: excelling, over-functioning, and quietly hoping fulfillment would catch up.

Coaching found me in a moment of unraveling. Instead of telling me what to fix, it gave me space to feel, reflect, and choose who I wanted to become. It gave me the permission to trade in my “I can’t” for “I am.” And that changed everything.

Now, I coach first-gens, quiet disruptors, and caring but exhausted leaders to stop shape-shifting and start showing up fully—at work, at home, and in their own story.

Share your story with me!

What I Stand For

My values shape my coaching, which sits between healing and goal-achieving, so you can make meaningful choices that prioritize who you are.

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Authenticity

Honor your whole self: past, present, future

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Kintsugi

Embrace your mistakes as beautiful progress

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Find your strength in connection and unity

Let's work together!

Credentials

    • Trained ontological coach with over 700 hours of coaching experience

    • Certified facilitator for workshops and retreats

    • Public speaker at US and UK conferences

    • Over 10 years’ experience in people development and project management at digital agencies and global mission-driven organizations

    • Accomplishment Coaching Graduate, International Coaching Federation (ICF) accredited program for ontological coaching

    • Certified Workshop Facilitator, High Tides Facilitation Certification Program for inclusive dialogue and discourse.

Featured On

Listen to my select interviews on Spotify.

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Find strength in softness,
power in flexibility,
perfection in mistakes,
success in failure,
clarity in confusion
and love in letting go.

— T A O T E C H I N G