Helping you live, lead, and love without hiding who you are.

For code-switchers, quiet powerhouses, and exhausted achievers who want to take charge of who they are becoming, and reconnect with their purpose and potential.

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Hi, I’m Betty Chan

I’m an Authenticity Life Coach, Speaker, and Facilitator supporting individuals and teams to choose who they are becoming.

As a recovering perfectionist and hustler, I’ve learned (the hard way) that real confidence, clarity, and self-trust doesn’t come from doing more. It comes from slowing down to make sense of life’s in-between moments, so you can move forward with greater focus.

I also know authenticity isn’t always easy to access, especially for first-gens who’ve been taught to succeed by adapting, overworking, or putting themselves last.

To me, authenticity is a liberation tool—a way to honor where you’ve been and align with the person you want to become.

When we know what truly matters, we can enjoy the twists and turns of our unfolding legacy.

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My clients have…

  • Confidently stepped into their quiet power as leaders and managers

  • Created new roles that fit like a glove around their skills and schedules

  • Made clear, values-driven decisions without guilt or second-guessing

  • Rebuilt trust in family, romantic, and work relationships

  • Reclaimed joy and creativity in their work after burnout

  • Broken generational patterns—choosing stability and courage over passive-aggressive chaos

My clients don’t just reach their goals—they reshape how they live, lead, and love for good.

W H A T   C L I E N T S   A R E   S A Y I N G

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    "In our 6 months together, Betty got me to see the big picture. I went from 'how can I do more' to really understanding what I wanted to accomplish and how I could get rid of the distractions that got in the way. I highly recommend her!"

    – Paul Lee (he/him)

  • "I had so many important epiphanies during my time with Betty! She helped me land on my feet after a layoff by identifying the major blockers to my happiness. I'm grateful I can finally relieve my stress and make real progress."

    – Brittany Robles (she/her)

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    "I started coaching to work through some tangled moments in my new business. Betty helped me see that there wasn't one ‘right’ way to do it. If you are looking for a thoughtful coach that will make you feel seen and held - reach out to Betty!"

    – Tanvi Mittal (she/her)

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    "Betty has such a grounding, yet expansive presence. She's empathetic, deeply thoughtful, and simultaneously no-nonsense (which is especially useful if you get stuck in overthinking loops). She has the knowledge, tools, and experience to hold space in exactly the way you need."

    – Ashlee Sang (she/her)

SPEAKING + WORKSHOPS

Three people are standing on a stage in front of a large screen displaying a presentation. The woman on the right is speaking and gesturing with her hands. The other two are listening. The screen shows her name, Betty Chan, and her roles as an Authenticity Coach and Space Facilitator, along with her company, Chan Coaching LLC. The background of the slide includes a black-and-white photo of a smiling woman wearing a wide-brimmed hat.

Betty brings honesty and heart to every stage—helping audiences see themselves more clearly.

She has spoken and led workshops for Olly, Unilever, The Asian American Foundation, and LEAP on authentic leadership, emotionally intelligent communication, and turning gentleness into an everyday superpower.

WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER

Personalized guidance for making meaningful change by aligning who you’ve been and who you are becoming.

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